The Love Scale

Yesterday I was speaking at PSU Women’s Forum in Portland, and everyone there was really amazing  – speakers, participants, panelists. One of the morning speakers was Victoria Lara, and she told a story that stuck with me.

Victoria said that some years back she had been under a lot of stress and was working all the time. One day she passed out due to exhaustion and stress, and had a mild heart attack.  During the time she was unconscious she had a near death experience. In her experience she saw a long, long line of all the people she had ever known, helped or connected with. It went on and on. There were all kinds of people from her work world, from her personal life, from her community advocacy and service. In that line were her two children, and her brother who had passed.

The people were in that line because they were waiting to get on a scale. A love scale. One-by-one, they would step up to this scale, and it would tell her how much love they had given to her and how much love she had given to them in exchange.

The love scale. That powerful image reminded me of what we’re measured for in life.

What she learned from this – and what she shared with the audience – is that it’s so, so important to connect with those around you. Not that fake, “How you doing?” “Oh just fine,” kind of connection, but to really take the time to fully experience another human being, or living creature, or just the world around you.

You have the capacity to be a powerful vehicle for love. This week, step onto the love scale and see how much love you give to yourself and how much love life gives to you. I think you’ll be surprised at how much there is to go around.

Give love, genius. give love.


Recent Posts

See All

Sign Up For My Newsletter!

Subscribe to our mailing list and receive a weekly dose of inspiration straight to your inbox!


Connect With Me

  • patti dobrowolski facebook
  • Patti Dobrowolski Twitter
  • YouTube Patti Dobrowolski
  • Vimeo Patti Dobrowolski
  • LinkedIn Social Icon

Get My Newsletter

Subscribe to our mailing list and receive a weekly dose of inspiration from Patti Dobrowolski

About Patti Dobrowolski

Join the Community

© 2021 · Patti Dobrowolski